I offer the following coaching services. Please review them at your leisure and choose what resonates the most with you. The first step will be to schedule a 20-minute exploratory session to talk about what your goals are and see if we are a good fit.

After that, we will have our initial session and I will create a tailored fit package which will include where you are, what you want to accomplish and, what tools can get you there. If you are looking for a specific skill from the sex coaching menu, we will focus on your choice.

As we embark on this journey, thoughts and values can change and fluctuate. Please know we will always support your shifts and we can add or subtract as needed.

life coaching

My beloved psychologist, Basy Virella, after having worked with me on the hard psychotherapy work, would then ask me if I needed a tune up appointment. Life coaching is a tune up of the mind, body, and soul. It offers a moment to stop, assess and take notice of where we are and where we would like to be.

Your focus may include but it’s not limited to:

  • Embracing Your Authentic Self

  • Creating Your Personal Foundation

  • Self-Discovery

  • Building and Creating Your Consent and Boundaries Language

  • Body Positivity Work

  • Life Transitions

  • Alternative Lifestyle Exploration

Intimacy Coaching

My favorite author, Anais Nin, says, “The value of the personal relationship to all things is that it creates intimacy, and intimacy creates understanding, and understanding creates love.” I believe this embodies what we are striving to accomplish at Marvelous Sensuality with our clients. To know, to explore, to embrace, especially to do so for ourselves is the basis of loving intimacy.

We’ll cover:

  • Basic Anatomy

  • Basics of Intimacy

  • Sensate Focus and Touch

  • Rediscovering and Rebuilding Intimacy After Religious Trauma

  • Mismatched Libido (Sexual Desire)

  • Vaginism and Pain During Sex

  • Sex After Pregnancy

  • Embracing and Creating Intimacy Through the Stages of Menopause

  • ED, Early Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation

sex coaching

The beautiful carnality of sex can be so simple, yet it feels like the most complex mystery of humankind. More than anything, healthy sex begins by working on the connection we have with ourselves and our bodies. While some of the choices under sex coaching can be included under intimacy, these topics focus specifically on what you desire to learn.

Your focus may include-but it’s not limited to:

  • Basics of Intimacy

  • Sensory Sensual Play

  • Foreplay

  • Kissing, Touching

  • Sensual Play

  • Oral Sex (for all gender identities)

  • Pleasure Exploration And/or Reconnection

  • Embracing Your Pleasure Self

  • The Pelvic Floor and You

Alternative relationships

Relationships that exist out of the mainframe are often maligned because the fear of the unknown overtakes the desire to understand. There are many relationship structures where the normative just doesn’t fit. They also bring unique challenges and growth opportunities.

What are you curious about? What would you like to explore? Where do you need support?

  • Polyamory/Ethical Non-Monogamy

  • Open Relationships

  • Swingers

  • Monogamish

  • Poly/Mono Mixed Dynamics

  • Alternative Relationship Dynamics - BDSM, Cuckold, 50’s Lifestyle, Gorean, House Structure, etc…

“It is not enough to think positive. You must create the action so that what you desire comes true.”

My Dad, Mariano Maeso